Finding mom friends is very important but can be hard sometimes. Learn how to make mom friends as SAHM and create your social circle. Your new mom friends will not only help you with navigating motherhood together but they will benefit your children too. Thanks to connecting with new moms your kid will have the opportunity to interact with other kids, develop social skills, and form early friendships.
Why is Having Mom Friends Important?
- They offer a sense of community
- They help you reduce feelings of isolation
- They are a great resource for information and advice
- They provide you with reassurance
- They share their struggles with you
- They share tips and recommendations
Where to Find Mom Friends Online?
1. Parenting Forums
You can ask for advice or answer other’s questions. You can easily connect to other parents by sending them a private message.
2. Meetup
It is a platform where you can find local groups and events that align with your interests, including mom and parenting groups.
3. Apps
They are easy to use and can help you connect with moms who share similar interests to yours. You have to be patient to find your perfect match but it’s possible. Check out list of Mom Friends Apps.
4. Facebook
Just search for a mom group, add your city or county, and request to join. These groups often post about local events and opportunities to meet other parents.
Where to Find Mom Friends in Your Area?
1. Your Neighborhood
No need to drive anywhere. You can just start with your neighborhood. If you go for a walk around the block with your kids, there is a possibility you will meet another mom who lives close by.
2. Local Playground
It is a perfect place to start. There are always other local moms and dads. You can easily start a small talk while kids are playing.
3. Library
Every public library has story time or other kids’ activities for free. Just search for the best ones for you and your kid and start going regularly. It’s a perfect educational setting where you can connect with other moms with children of similar ages.
4. Parenting Classes
You can meet other parents who share similar experiences and interests. And while learning some parenting tips you can easily make new friends.
5. Workout Classes for Moms
This is the perfect place to find other moms who share positive vibes about fitness. You can become besties by working together at the gym and have regular workout routine.
6. Sport Lessons for Kids
You will be watching your kids getting physical education and in the meantime, you can chat with other parents. You can just talk about sports.
7. Mommy & Me Classes
It’s nice when local child-friendly businesses offer creative classes like yoga, art, music, and others. These classes not only allow parents to connect with their children but also with other parents.
8. Church or Religious Groups
There are a lot of opportunities to make mom friends at the church. From family gatherings, and community service projects to special events and volunteering opportunities. You can find like-minded moms who share your values and beliefs.
9. Indoor Playground
They are not only a fun and safe space for your child to play but also a wonderful place for you to meet other parents.
10. Support Groups for Moms
These groups can be a foundation of your mental well-being, especially in the early months of motherhood. It offers a nurturing and understanding environment so it’s perfect for first-time moms where they can connect with other parents who share similar experiences and challenges.
How to Make Mom Friends?
Follow these steps to create your social circle.
1. Make Eye Contact and Smile
Spreading those positive vibes does wonders for your mood, as well as for others.
2. Make the First Move
You can simply start with “Hi. How are you? I see you have a baby at a similar age to mine. How old is he?” You can also say something less popular like “They say enjoy this stage, time flies fast. But for me, it feels so slow. How about you?”
3. Exchange Contact Information
After you talked for a little bit and you feel the connection, ask if she would like to exchange numbers and if she is open for a playdate in the future.
4. Follow up
You have the number now. After you come home you can just text “It was nice to meet you and my child enjoyed playing with yours. Talk to you soon”.
5. Send an Invite for Event
Wherever you are going somewhere with your child, you can always text and ask if they would like to join. “Hi there. We are going to the library for story time at 10:00. Let me know if you would like to come with us”.
6. Host a Playdate for Kids
Invite them over or ask to meet at the local playground.
7. Ask for Advice
Sometimes you can send a simple text and ask something “Hi Mama, is there a product you would recommend for dry baby skin”. It helps you keep in touch and it’s always nice to get good advice.
8. Say Yes to Meet-ups
If you getting an invite for some playdates or events do your best to attend it.
If you don’t find a lot of events for moms in your area, you can organize them and be the host yourself! Here are a few ideas you can start with.
- Moms’ Night Out at the local restaurant.
- Neighborhood Walks at the nearby park.
- Mommy Coffee Break at Kids-friendly Café.
Make a poster and pin it at your local Facebook moms group. Wait for responses and enjoy the gathering.
Takeaway
I hope finding new mom friends just got a little bit easier. You know the places to go and steps to take to build a motherhood support system for yourself. If you are willing to put yourself out there and be patient I believe you will not only find mom friends but build beautiful friendships for life. Please let me know which of the suggested ways to make mom friends resonates with you the most, and why.
